Sex, even protected, has a danger of contamination by the AIDS virus and other sexually transmitted diseases
In a comic distributed as prevention against AIDS to thousands of students, we find the question of what to do if a condom breaks in sexual intercourse.
The response states that there is no alternative but to wait three months to a screening test (for whether there was infection or not), with, as a reminder that some lubricants can make brittle best condoms.
Can you imagine one hundred adolescents with multiple partners during the year with, one relationship at risk, however minor, of contamination? Although the New Year, a very small percentage is positive, the risk of infecting other young people in a single year, while protecting itself, is real. This risk applies to itself, but also for our partner and for the whole society.
In poor countries the situation is dramatic, some classes have experienced a staggering mortality!
The only complete protection against AIDS in sex is abstinence or fidelity between two uninfected people.
A sexual relationship outside marriage, even with his or her betrothed, opens the door to more easily an affair after marriage
If my boyfriend or my girlfriend is with me lets have sex before marriage, have furrowed his ethics. A good little push at the right time (illness, misunderstanding, travel, etc..), May, a few years later, down the wall of spousal protection. The relationship outside marriage is a habit that does not automatically disappear after marriage! There is therefore weakening of the future family life.
A conception out of wedlock has risks for parents and child
No method of contraception is 100% secure. Become pregnant before being married simply change the data we are no longer two, but already three or more!
Remember that healthy engagement should be broken. Nobody is immune to an about-face incomprehensible, a serious conflict, accident, serious illness or depression that delay or prevent a marriage. Other elements, rare but very real and totally unpredictable, as in death, disappearance or other dramatic changes can not be excluded. All this, plus the case, unfortunately less rare, the bridegroom who, having got what he wanted, loses interest in his bride, or the one who suddenly panic before his responsibilities and disappears into the wild. A sexual relationship between fiancés can give birth to a child who will never have parents united. Remember also that there are five times more separation between the partners between married people.
Did you enjoy your privilege of growing up with a father and a mother? Offer the same security for your children. Have you suffered from the absence of a parent or both to the causes that we talk? Avoid your children while suffering that you have so well known.